a comment to a friends blog

I was reading a friends blog after work, it was about going through the pains and difficulty of being hurt by someone you love. This was my response, I just thought of sharing it to all of you who might be reading this.

You are absolutely right about the facts girl, every gory detail is correct. Going through all that maybe one of the most difficult situations a person can undergo through. Reality bites, but what's amazing about life is that we can hope on, we can go on loving and loving. The best thing to do in this situation is to forgive and to go on with your life. It's one hard choice to make, healing takes time but like I said healing starts once you start forgiving. The other option would be to lash out, vindicate yourself by avenging yourself by making other people go through the same things that have been done to you. Yes, that may feel good..for awhile but still the pain remains. Only in making a choice to forgive and choosing to still do good inspite of what has been done to you is still the best way to heal. believe me you will reap the benefits sooner of later. Don't forget that there is a God who knows everything and will pay and repay each person for what they have done...some call this karma, I you believe in that right? Believe it for it is a fact. As for the person who has done you wrong, maybe one day, that person will realize the wrong that has been done, but even though that person doesn't acknowledge, go on with your life, you have your own life to live and a whole lifetime to to experience love. Who knows true love might just be waiting on the next curb for you. Blessings on you. For some of you who things this is masyadong "pa martyr"...well, think of this as a revolution of a different kind. The choice to do what is right.